Marathon Couples Therapy
We offer Marathon Couples Therapy at our home on Orcas Island, with either one of us or with both of us together. Because of our remote location, this treatment serves the needs of those clients who desire complete privacy. Orcas Island is served by ferries running frequently everyday, and also by daily air travel.
Marathon Couples Therapy is a specific type of therapy that is short-term and intensive. Its purpose is to help resolve your current crisis or a specific issue in the relationship. It is not meant as an on-going, long-term couples therapy. Because time is limited, it does not include a full relationship assessment nor a teaching of every skill included in the Gottman Method. Rather, an assessment is done of the current crisis, and together with information gleaned from the written questionnaires filled out and sent to us earlier, goals are set to fit the time available. The Gottman Methods pertinent to achieving these goals are then incorporated into the treatment.
Marathon Couples Therapy involves 3 consecutive days of intensive therapy, 5 total hours per day. The structure of each therapy day may vary depending on your needs. Establishing therapeutic goals and a treatment plan to guide your therapy will occur in the first session. Thereafter, all treatment sessions will focus on the problems and goals at hand.
The Marathon Couples Therapy approach has been shown to have benefits for couples that undertake it. It often leads to a significant reduction of feelings of distress, resolution of specific problems, and a stronger relationship. In many cases, it has moved couples from thinking of ending their relationship to recommitting to it in new ways.
However, it is important that you also understand the risks involved. Despite the “nuts and bolts” approach of this method, the Marathon Couples Therapy format may move you more quickly and intensely into the areas of difficulty to be addressed. Therefore, you and /or your partner may experience uncomfortable feelings like sadness, guilt, anxiety, anger, loneliness, and helplessness. Your therapy may also involve recalling unpleasant aspects of your history together and/or individually.
Difficulties between the two of you may become temporarily amplified. Additionally, difficulties with people important to you may also occur, family secrets may be disclosed, and despite our best efforts, therapy may not work out well. Thus, we can make no guarantees about how the therapy process will be for the two of you specifically or what the outcome will be for your relationship. In addition, Marathon Couples Therapy, as with couples’ therapy in general, has limitations and may be inadvisable in the following situations.
Cost per couple:
Schedule Marathon Therapy:
Dr. Julie Gottman
Contact: Kathryn Schwartz
Phone: (206) 381-8456
Dr. John Gottman
Contact: Kristi Content
Phone: (206) 313-0471
Cancellation Policy: Deposits are non-refundable. Your appointment times are reserved for you alone. If you need to cancel or reschedule your appointment for any reason, appointments must be canceled one week in advance in order to avoid charge for the final 50% of the fee.
Should you have any questions regarding the following issues, please contact us for clarification about whether the Marathon Therapy method is suitable for your situation. These issues are:
- If there is active alcohol and/or drug addiction on the part of either or both partners, from either partner’s perspective
- If there is serious violence in your relationship, threats by one or both partners that serious violence might occur, or fear of such serious violence on the part of one or both partners
- If either partner currently has an untreated major mental illness (schizophrenia, recurrent psychotic depression, or bipolar/manic-depressive illness.) This does not include past, successfully treated psychotic episodes (e.g. post-partum depression with psychosis).
- If there is an undisclosed, current affair that you are not willing to disclose (such secrets predict marital therapy failure)
- If either partner is currently experiencing suicidal or homicidal thoughts or has a history of serious harm inflicted on him/herself or another person
Upon completion of the therapy, we may recommend that Marathon Couples Therapy be followed by couples’ and/or individual therapy conducted in your home locale. In some cases, coordination between your home locale therapist and us may be advisable. In this case, your therapist will have you both sign a Release of Information form to allow for this exchange if further treatment is needed.