Gottman Couples Retreats

In the comfort of the Gottmans’ own island home, learn research-based tools for building and maintaining relationship intimacy.

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Weekend Retreats

Restore your relationship while having a world-class romantic holiday. In an exclusive, small-group two-day couples retreat, you’ll learn new skills for deepening intimacy, managing conflicts, and enhancing your sense of shared meaning in a private, comfortable, and beautiful setting. The retreats are presented by the Gottmans in their seaside home in Washington’s San Juan Islands.

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Private Marathons

In addition to providing Private Couples Retreats, Drs. John and Julie Gottman are now also scheduling appointments for Marathon Therapy at their home office on Orcas Island. In this powerful new therapy format, one couple meets with either Dr. John Gottman, Dr. Julie Gottman, or both for five hours a day and for 3 consecutive days while staying overnight at a nearby Hotel or Bed and Breakfast Inn.

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Beautiful Orcas Island

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